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How should I respond when my child throws a tantrum because I have taken their iPad away?
When your child throws a tantrum, it is important to not give in and to remain firm in your decision. It is important to remain calm and to not engage in any power struggles. Acknowledge your child's feelings, but explain to them why the iPad needed to be taken away. Reassure your child that you still love them and that you are making this decision for them because it is in their best interest. Offer alternative activities that your child can enjoy and suggest that the iPad will be returned when the underlying issue has been addressed.
How can I stop my children from fighting with each other over iPads and other technology devices?
1. Establish tech-free times to give everyone a break from technology, like dinner time, family game night, or any other agreed-upon time.
2. Have each child take turns with the device(s). They can take turns deciding who gets to use it and for how long.
3. Set a few ground rules and have everyone agree to them. For example, no taking each other’s devices without permission and no fighting/arguing over who gets to use the iPad/device.
4. If a fight does happen, stay calm and don’t engage in any arguing. Call the situation to a halt, redirect the energy, and let them know the consequences of their behaviour.
5. Coach them on how to deal with their frustrations in a mature way. Role-play different scenarios or come up with a script they can use when they encounter a conflict in the future.